I'm having this problem with all my Sims since Lovestruck came out. They'll be married, attracted to each other, amazing compatibility, full romantic saatisfaction, doing romantic interactions every day (including emotionally connect, build up partner, sleeping while cuddling, woohoo almost daily). The romance bar is fine for a few days, then one goes to work or something or they have a kid and get busy for one afternoon and the romance bar is completely gone by morning.
I have to spend half the day doing romantic interactions to get the romance bar back up, wasting so much time it cuts into anything else I was doing with them in the game. If I had plans to raise super smart kids, or fully train pets, or reach aspirations and career goals, I have to start choosing between that and the relationship. I know the decay was meant to bring balance, but there is no balance because the relationship is always back to zero every morning no matter how good things were when they went to bed, and I have to start over with it. It gets boring and frustrating.
If I don't immediately spend half the day trying to rebuild the romance bar because they have to clean or make money or whatever, they are soon warning each other that their romantic satisfaction is low and they might get divorced if the other is mean. Or one is afraid of being alone, the other is suffering from relationship fears, and I then have to resolve THOSE issues.
I like to play families, and I don't mind if SOME of them have relationship issues or don't work out-- but ALL of them? It is sad that every single couple that gets married in my game now runs into this.
If this isn't a glitch, then it's one of those great ideas the creators had that was implemented poorly and should be changed. The point of sims having different traits/personalities/lifestyles/relationship dynamics/etc. was supposed to be to make the game more fun with more variety, not to make it boring by every single sim having the same problems and issues.
I play on PC, have all DLC, no mods, no cc, I have cleared cache and repaired the game multiple times, but each game I play, whether an old save or new one, same thing happens.