Sims Aging Up From Teen Not Getting Option to Choose Trait

I know there is a discussion about this already but I can't find it, but I've been having this issue since October where if there is more than one teen sim in my household at once something triggers during the time of them being a teen and then when they age up they don't get the pop up to choose a new trait or aspiration. It's so frustrating that this is still an issue, and it's honestly game breaking when you're trying to play a legacy, which is all I play. I can't get through even one generation without this happening. 

I was worried this would happen with my new save, and it just did, even though I turned off active high school and the follow prompts. I didn't have my sims sign up for after school sports or go to prom but the issue still happened. Teen sims will age up properly if it's within a week of them aging into teens, so I just don't know what's going on. 

I don't use Mods or CC. I've sent in saves where this issue is happening before but I now have another one so I'm happy to send in this one too if needed. 

Has anyone found a workaround for this issue yet?