The control legend won't stay off!

Every time I load my save game, the control legend is on the screen. I am turning it off in the settings, and saving changes. But it doesnt save, I'm having to turn it off every time I load, and its super annoying! Im fed up of seeing this on the screen, I've been playing The Sims since since Sims 1, I know the controls!! 

I believe my daughter, who plays on laptop (no mods) also has this same issue.

I play on Xbox series x, so no mods. I have all expansions, all game packs, all stuff packs apart from Moschino, and all but 12 of the kits.