Xbox 1, controls on screen & new items not disappearing, game options not saving

Playing on Xbox 1. After the new update, the control interface on the right side of the screen showed up in build mode. I removed it in the game options, saved, and it disappeared. Next time I log on, playing in the same save & same exact lot in build mode, the controls appear again. I go into Game Options, and the box to disable the control menu is rechecked even though I unchecked it last time. Every time I play now, I have to go into game options and disable the control menu. I also unchecked some data sharing options and those too have been reset every time I log on.

Also, the alien baby bassinet from Get to Work and the pee bush from Snowy Escape still appear 'yellow' with a star next to them and unused in the build mode menu, even though I have used the items before. I click on them to make them un-yellow, save, and it goes away. However, just like with the control menu the next time I open the save they are yellow again with a star signaling a new item.

Also, the Gallery sometimes doesn't appear even though I am connected to the internet. I sometimes have to restart the game multiple times to get it to appear. All of this has only happened since the latest update.

Please fix, this is so annoying.