XBOX series s - foliage and decor stop the household from opening

Hi I've noticed on my Xbox series S that if I decorate the lot with trees and flowers it causes my household not to open. I can usually get the afflicted household to open if I select a different household then select manage worlds then select the afflicted household. The same thing happens with hidden items behind cheat walls marked "unknown"- they have become nearly unusable. I've noticed that when the lot decides it's had enough (especially if I try and add walls after foliage) the game will not let me save nor exit to the main menu- I have to go to Xbox home and force quit- usually multiple times if I'm trying to get through a portion of the build that the game doesn't like. I lean more towards building sets than cast so this has almost halted my game playing and has lead to weeks long extended breaks from the game that I would not have otherwise taken. Could you please help? I would love to get to build freely! This has been going on for many months.