@masunka77 The missing textures/question marks is a symptom of an incomplete install or a problem with custom content. Instead of using the replacement for snowflakes, please try repairing your game: open the EA App game library, click Sims 4, and select Manage > Repair. Then test without the replacement, and without any other cc present. You don't need to save your progress.
I would expect your game to run above 60 fps at least some of the time, even on ultra graphics settings, and the fact that lowering the settings doesn't help much just underlines that there's something else going on here. By playing offline, do you mean you put the App in offline mode, or do you disconnect your computer from the internet entirely? If you haven't tried the latter, please do so, just as an experiment.
Additionally, have you changed any settings in the Nvidia Control Panel other than the Max Frame Rate? If you've enabled vertical sync as well, either for Sims 4 or overall, please disable it. Or just reset the Control Panel settings to default and see how it goes. If you've enabled vertical sync in the game options, disable it there too.
Please test in both fullscreen and windowed modes and let me know whether one is better than the other. And play with ultra graphics, or as close to it as you would normally, rather than low.
If that doesn't help, please try playing in a clean boot:
https://support.microsoft.com/en-us/topic/how-to-perform-a-clean-boot-in-windows-da2f9573-6eec-00ad-2f8a-a97a1807f3dd
The one service to leave enabled is the EABackgroundService, which the EA App needs in order to run. Disable the rest as described.
When you reboot your computer, go through the Task Manager's background processes list shutting down any service that doesn't absolutely need to be running, for example anything from MSI Afterburner to RGB software might still be enabled. If you accidentally kill a critical process and it doesn't restart on its own, just reboot your computer again.
Don't open anything other than Sims 4 and the EA App while testing, not even a browser window, and stay offline. This is obviously not a great way to play Sims 4 in general, but it's a helpful diagnostic.