@CGrant56 I remember in the XBox 360 version of Sims 3 Pets where my cat also decided to take over the world. He did not get as far in his quest as your vampires did. In the end he decided it was too much work and instead settled for napping on the most comfortable couch in town as being close enough. Typical cat! xD
Yeah, there are lots of ways to play Sims 4 but I think every way is the right way as long as you are having fun! I usually pick one Sim as my "me" Sim and I will play her as my character, just as I would in a game like Skyrim or Fallout (oops sorry EA, I meant to say Mass Effect! I still love ya!). This way I can focus on her and control everything she does, though I do let whims influence her decisions. This is what I meant when I say I'm a control freak. I prefer to let the game control everyone else in her household as NPCs. This is why I love having roommates and pets and clubs for NPC families! I do like to control how the townies look and dress, how & when they age up, etc., so I'm very happy the game allows me to do that (the other aspect of me being a control freak). I have several saves as I like to have my various "me" Sims live in different worlds, have different looks, styles, and traits, and try out different careers and aspirations. To generally live their lives in very different ways.
So yeah I guess my style of play is more like traditional old-school video game but I can't think of any game that allows me to play like this better than Sims 4. See EA? I told you I still love you ;-D