@ReyleenKovacsI am not sure if this post will help in any way, but you do have some hints that are true, not all that is. You need to be less aggresive but I did laugh a lot reading your stuff xD. Don't get me wrong, I love Apex, but just because of that, I cannot help but notice it's flaws and want it to be better and grow, same as you. This might help, it might not, I do not know, but we need to be patient with some present issues.
I still hate the servers tho.