@Yohimbay I think you answered yourself with this one. "we don't get an option to opt out of cross play", that's your issue right there. Aa is what it is, nothing was thought wrong with it before cross play started bc same lobbies and same inputs. If it's so deadly how do controller players compete with each other?
Now, do you think it fair to nerf or remove it from the game for every Xbox and Playstation owner on earth bc pc players aren't happy about it? I can tell you now the majority of us never wanted to play with pc players either. We should start a poll on here to confirm this imo.
Ps if you think it's as easy as pulling right trigger then I hate to say it but you are sadly mistaken. I suspect you're dealing with a cheating issue if you are dying in 0.15 seconds and one burst from a Hemlok regularly.