Crossplay isn't working

If I'm reading correctly, your issue is not being able to find each other by gamer tag, rather than a problem queueing up for a game together once already joined up in a lobby?

I have seen this process be complicated a couple times on stream, but the one time I've done it, there was no issue.  I did notice one thing, though.  I can only see  my PC friend in my friends list when he is logged in to the game.  If he is not, he does not appear in my friends list at all, unlike all of my PS4 friends.

That is correct,

OK. But you didn't have an issue where you weren't even able to add friends? Because none of us can add each other and can't figure out why we are having so much trouble.

I added a bit to my first post, but nothing ground-breaking.

Yes, I had no problem finding the PC account I was trying to add.  I'm going to tag a couple forum members who I know are more familiar with this topic.

@MandatoryIDtag @Cheese9Man @hayhor 

Ok thank you for your help!

@daboss9090  first suggestion is y'all check your privacy settings. This could be ya issue. .

My second suggestion is you ask one of the other two @pandareno1999 mentioned, as that's all I've got. XD

Sorry!

@MandatoryIDtag  Ok thank you.

@Cheese9Man @hayhor  Sorry to bother y'all but is there anything else that we should try? I've read a couple other forums of people having the same issue but have not come up with a solution yet.