Hearing "I H8 this game" far too often

I think it's a huge combination of all that together. Taking it super seriously (I do that I play to win not for fun) throw in random games (THIS I don't do) just because your asking to have a REALLY bad time if you go play with randoms. Takes no time or effort to jump onto discord and get a squad together since they have a HUGE server for Apex. Then throw in the hackers and you've got a smorgasbord of bad tasting foods. 

You jump in with randoms thinking it's going to be a good time today, you lose, they don't comm, listen, ping, do anything and go off on their own or run and hide from fights. Then you throw in every game being a coin flip because you don't know if your going to come across a hacker and if you do the game is just over at that point. All these things together just frustrate people beyond belief because if it's not dealing with random brain dead people, it's dealing with a hacker, if not that you'll get the occasional hyper toxic weirdo who does more than take the game seriously but thinks he's going to be the next top streamer or something and just goes off the walls. Add in those disconnects some people are dealing with on a regular basis.

Throw in also that sometimes it takes quite some time to hear feedback and when it does come, something else breaks entirely. Every fix implemented breaks multiple other things. It's never been like ok wait a month and everything will be smooth. Instead it's wait a month for a major update to everything and then the other stuff that wasn't broken is broken. Then when they implement certain things like Elite que or now ranked they never have a PBE version for people to test so it usually comes out the gate already messed up or the point system isn't what it should be or there is just always something wrong. I think most people are just tired of it because it's been MONTHS now and a few things have been promised to be taken care of since launch and are still here plaguing the game. Community gives a bunch of feedback (some completely useless) but when there IS good feedback they quite literally don't take it into consideration and apply it.

For all those reasons combined is why people are getting turned away from the game. It's a huge company not an indie game so there isn't much excuse to the current quality of the servers, and overall quality of updates.

*Also want to add I am happy with the progress they've made thus far even though it's taken forever, compared to launch it's 100x better than what it was. However it should be in much better condition given the time they've had so far.