Cant find crossplay friends

this has to be an EA server issue!!!! not one of the other consoles can find my pc or vice versa, yes all setting have been check marked and are online. Nothing that EA has suggested has fixed  the problem, beginning to think it simply does not work at the moment and they are trying to implement it as the game is released just saying that "is working" and  it might work for some.

  ONLY wanted this game to play with my 3 sons and now it looks like a complete waste of my time and money, having paid for 3 different system copies and none can cross platform with each other. Anymore bright ideas EA??? if you cant fix this problem i see alot of refunds being wanted and if the cross platform shouldn't have been implemented until "you people" had tested it fully.

 I do expect an answer.....we all want the  game that "WORKS AS ADVERTIZED " this does not! 

  After all "WE THE PEOPLE PAID FOR A COMPLETE WORKING GAME" not a half * attempt at it just so you can release it and try to fix the problem as the patches roll out!!