Ranked only high ping

My ping in apex is borked. Some games i have 30ms, and some i have 150 with 5-15% loss on the same server. I have fiber. If i speedtest its normally 3-5ms, and over 900mbps down and up. I play on oregon. At the previous place I lived in another state i had the same issues and the ping there was roughly the same but i had 100mbps down and up. I do not ever get packetloss or ping spikes in valorant, csgo, etc.. Just in apex. I keep network stats up in game in every game i play, its an apex specific issue. And it's a issue primarily when i play ranked. I never got it in arenas when arenas was around, and I don't get it super often in mixtape modes, though sometimes i do. When I play ranked its around 50% of the time i get connected to servers where my internet seems to die. I ask my teammates everytime to check if its the server or me, but typically it's just me and whoever im partied with, and randoms don't ever seem to get affected by it. That part confuses as, why would the person im partied with also be lagging. Maybe its routing me to servers in another region and takes them along with me?  Anyone else getting this kind of issue/have an idea of whats causing it?