@Anobix Apparently BFV had the same strength aim assist as 2042. The problem is you didn't know who was using a controller because there wasn't crossplay then.
After playing around with a controller a bit, I think the problem might be the reduced recoil. There's so little with a controller. Once you get a hit marker, the enemy dies extremely quickly. Reduced recoil also means reduced spread. So there's two benefits to that alone. I think reduced recoil for controllers needs to go.
I highly doubt that Crossplay will ever feel fair to anyone anytime soon. It's probably not any of the Developers fault, but more so Microsoft and how the Xbox network operates.