Lobby timeout

Why??? What is the point of this?? I can't count how many times I've waited in a lobby for the required number of players only to get bounced just as the match is starting!!!! Then to make it worse, I can't get back into that match and have to go through the whole **bleep** process all over again.  Why have a timeout? Just let us wait. And if there finally becomes enough players, disable the timeout so we dont get bounced from the match and spend all GD day waiting in lobbies!! It's infuriating!