Extreme Lag on Multiplayer Servers

I have redownloaded BF2042 over 5 times. I have done all the hot fixes and side fixes people have posted. I have recently gotten a new router and new modem. I have updated my hardware before the launch of this game to play this game. Through it all I still have tons of lag across almost all servers unless its one of the small portal maps but still i have a little bit of lag. I have tried everything for this ultimate edition to no avail. I did not buy this game to just play with bots. I have made multiple request and heard nothing back from ea. I have friends that play with no lag that have less hardware specs then i do and a couple that have better then i do. I just dont get it.

My PC:

• OS: 64-bit Windows 10
• Processor (AMD): AMD Ryzen 7 2700X
• Memory: 32GB
• Video Memory: 6GB
• Graphics card (NVIDIA): Nvidia GeForce RTX 2060
• DirectX: 12
• Online Connection: 100MB
• Hard-drive space: 250GB SSD

Tried another round of MP. Deleting the cashe helps at the beginning of the round but afterwards its back to its laggy self. My Cpu is running 40-50% and my gpu is running at 10-20% the whole time. I have 160 hours into this game and maybe 10 or less has been in multiplayer trying to fix this problem or trying to fight through the lag.

Its been really frustrating. I upgraded my pc before the game was in beta. Bought it months before it went to beta to play with friends and just can't play Multiplayer. I've done all the fixes and replaced modem and router, checked internet speeds and connection. And still getting tons of lag on servers. Only time i don't get lag is if im by myself playing with bots and that definitely not why i bought this game to do.