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Okay, then can someone please explain to me why stats aren’t counted on these so-called ‘official’ servers? It makes absolutely no sense.

I hate cod and haven’t played it a years. I just want to play with my friends, man. 

Hardcore in general is messed up right now. They nerfed it (on accident?) so that all kills don't count, but deaths do. That's not a matchmake or community server problem. Closed weapon and hardcore are related, so maybe whatever bug or whatever affects it too. Other than that, all other stats and unlocks should record properly in the servers you showed in image.

So the simple solution to this isn't great but.  Get a squad into a game, have 1 break off an form a new squad an then have folks join on them, and repeat as needed.  Granted if you're group is too big you'll get the joining in progress thing.  But we've had up to 12 people in the same match before and it put everyone on the same side.

Not just that, Infantry Conquest / Breakthrough as well. It should all count.