AFter 72 hour suspension Friends cannot find me

Hi all, I was suspended for swearing in public chat. (It said bullying, even though nothing was directed at an individual. Swearing is in the game, so... /shrug) It has now been 2 days since the suspension ended, and my friend on PSN cannot see me in EA, even when I join his party. I appear blank. I have deleted the web cache in Steam. I have relogged my EA account. It's very frustrating. Any solution to perhaps reset my social positioning with my friends list?