BF6 XBOX ISSUE

I am trying to join crossplay lobbies and it is forcing me into xbox servers that take twenty minutes to fill... i have spent alot of money on this game just have my experience ruined by this everyday.. i am trying to enjoy the game but this happens every day. I cannot spend hours searching for lobbies. This isnt good enough. It needs to be fixed. If i chose cross play, it shouldnt put me in xbox lobbies . It forces me in them over and over again. Fix this please.