Packet losses in large scale BF6 modes

Same here. What bothers me the most is that none of my five friends have this problem, and if they do, it's only for seconds and doesn't affect the gameplay.

I have rtx 3070, 16 RAM, AMD Ryzen 9 5900HS

In contrast to the OP my performance is inversely related to the ping, if I have a 6-8ms ping then there is no point in starting the match as my shots will not register and I am dead before seeing the enemy.  If I join a server with 20-24ms ping, much better hit registration and I don't get shot around the corner.  25 years playing FPS games and I have never witnessed low ping being a disadvantage before.  

FYI for clarity, I have a fibre FTP connection, 1gbps connection, 13900k, 4080 super, 144fps, £2.5k for a gaming rig and £50 per month for a solid internet connection and BF6 is the only game that runs and performs like canine poop.  

Again FYI, BF4, runs amazing, BF1 runs amazing, and Delta Force runs like a dream.  I have no issues with bullet registration with any of them.  I have a better gaming experience with east coast BF4 servers with a 90ms ping than I have with BF6 on 7ms ping.

Surely this has to be broken right?