Server Browser and connection issues

Why is there not a favorites tab and why does connecting to a server take 5+ tries to connect? IE.. I go to join my clan's server, it puts me in a que ie 6/6 4/4 etc etc. then I start connecting, then it boots me out to the main  BF page??? my Rig is no slouch, Im on a hard wired 3gpbs fiber connection so I know its not MY hardware. What the **bleep** is going on EA? can you not get your connection issues together? 

Furthermore, why is there no way to spectate other players, move players to balance teams or random team shuffling every map change?