Well.. it appears that either i have already done the mission, and given her the family crest, OR i have managed to not activate the mission at all. (i couldn't find in "completed missions" that i have given it to her or something like that)
And i have talked through all of her dialouges, i am sure of that. I've been to Val Royeux and it was not to be found, i've looked through the war table after the mission. I have almost completed the whole main storyline too. So idk 😛
Well i guess i just have to accept it then. I can live with that, it's just a game xD Thanks anyway (y)