I unfortunately just noticed this as well, over 15hours into playing. Thought I heard someone call my female character “he” earlier on but didn’t think much of it, then just heard someone call me “boy”. Confirmed in the mirror that my female character is listed as “male, he/him”.
I think this change happened when I looked at Varrics shaving mirror. I opened the options for gender but didn’t choose any of them after reading the prompt.
Unfortunately there is about an 8hour gap between saves where this is fixed. Guess I’ll be waiting for a fix in the next patch hopefully. Actually makes me want to stop playing until this can be resolved.
Ugh. You can't even "fix" it with Varric's mirror either, because (at least for me) once you pick it up once and put it down, it never seems to work again?
