is there a way to remove the in game pause notification on ps4?

I agree with this.  It also needs to be removed from xbox.  People will purposely hit pause to throw you off when they think you are about to score because it puts the notice at the top.  Maybe it should only show up for the person that hits pause and not for the opponent that way people will only hit pause when the ball goes out of play.  It sucks when that pause message stays up for a long time when the ball never goes out.