Okay so I fixed my issue and I’ll post with some detail here in hopes to help others who have tried all other trouble shooting issues and still can’t connect or play any online games in ultimate team.
I had ran multiple speed tests using 3rd parties and my speeds were great. All my other games on Xbox work fine, so I assumed it could not be the wifi. Upon doing the connection test in the thread above. I noticed my packet loss seemed high. I contacted my ISP in hopes they could reset or see anything wrong on their end as a last effort.
I’ve had fiber internet (through Lumos) for a few months now everything has been working fine. When I called the ISP told me I was on CGNET and changed my IP to Dynamic or traditional (I hope I understood him correctly on that).
upon the change to traditional, I was finally able to play and complete a rivals game, and have not been disconnected from Ultimate team for 30 minutes now (I hope I’m not jinxing myself).
I hope this fix helps others because EA seems to offer no help granted it seems the issue was through my ISP. Also, after the change my packet loss remains the same, but my game still runs smoothly. So for those saying to hardwire or move router do to packet loss, you can see mine in the thread above and my game runs with no lag.