Absolutely horrid servers

Been playing this game for years on my Xbox Series X and the same thing continues and continues and as each game comes by it gets worse and worse and it is the most frustrating thing in the world. I be playing rivals or I don’t know maybe a live event, a few games in and I’m actually having fun, players passing well, attack is running smoothly, defence is superb, actually feel like I’m playing so well until out of no where I start feeling absolutely horrible, players feel like their literal twigs, my massive centre backs being bullied by midgets, always being out of position, passes going all over the place, positioning in attack absolutely horrendous, shots absolutely horrible, I could go on an on and on, all of a sudden I go from playing football like I’m prime Barcelona to feeling like I am using a team full of absolute trash. It is genuinely the most frustrating thing in the world, it feels like I’m getting gaslighted by the game itself that I’m worse than what I feel like when in reality it’s these horrible servers switching up when it feels like it and although this is supposed to be the best fifa out there ea doesn’t care, they fix everything other than the servers. I never rage, I am like the most calm person there is when playing games and it’s so frustrating because when I’m playing in full effect and I know that the servers are running smoothly and I lose a game I would not be annoyed in the slightest, because I actually had fun, but if I lose and the servers are all over the place and the game is actually unplayable, oh my god I genuinely can’t control my anger, it is so annoying. Had a couple months break from this game before I came back for toty and let me tell you it was so nice, come back to grind out toty and nothings changed, servers still all over the place. If you got this far, thankyou for reading, please be ea reading this because I actually want to enjoy the game.