my defenders feels like air

EA team, i really try to understand how can i play defence if my it feels that my defenders is like air in the pitch .
i have defenders rating 87 and above with gold dominate playstyle and still almost every player with little dribbling control can pass my defenders as if they don't exist .
you overpowered the dribbilng and the game isn't fun anymore .
every game i need to struggle to win and there's no sense in this .
u must find the to balance it and make defenders be able to stop the players and make them go through them .
also there's the issue when i finally manage to take the ball from the player, somehow the attacking player manages to take the ball from my defender or center back and score .
the passing are not accurate, i pass to the player diagonally from me and the ball reaches the player in the middle or the other way around .

the game start to be so sucks and annoying and me don't wanna play it !!!