Exploit / cheaters getting DNF (PC)

this is so annoying beside the exploit or what it is that someone pauses and then u get DNF(cause somehow they disconnect you from ea servers )  now i went to play a match and it stayed 5 minutes in a black screen not starting , match not showing in match history on ea connection quality report and I GET DNF , how can you enjoy this game when this happens for a couple of years . i don't have any disconnection issues in any online game never , only happening on EA FC when opponent wants !!!!! 1000mbps internet through ethernet , you grind and something like this happens when you need to go up in division or when you are at checkpoint , no option to report the player when things like this happens and no fix , all the generic messages with the bulls**t about connection are just a fairytale , last year my thread got removed and moved to a "stutter/lag" thread that had nothing to do with what happened , why you not do something about this is mental , you pay to play a game you like and cheaters/exploiters take advantage of crap like this , and after the game closes i get message from the opponent saying gg after he exploits the game and u lose without playing, or play until they see they can't beat you then they pause and make you disconnect from ea servers  , HOW IS THIS FUN ???? i will spam this till you give an answer something real not a generic connection reply