head-to-head matches cheating
Right - so you have a lower OVR team with lower stats - of course the opponent is going to be better 🤷♀️
Just to point out though, the server lag does not make it glitchy or choppy, it just makes your button recognition slower, meaning that you are just that little bit late on tackles, shots, etc, which gives your opponent a distinct advantage.
If you are suggesting that something spending money gives you preference in matches, or a better H2H experience - I can guarantee you, as someone who used to regularly buy the star pass and the lower value packs, it absolutely does not change your gameplay experience, other than maybe having a couple of slightly higher stats players.
(the gameplay engine is also not that smart that I can recognise whether you have previously spent money on the game)
