Online H2H - Keeps "losing connection"

Every time over the past few days when i attempt to play a simple online H2H game, i am in the main lobby, account is signed into the EA servers. but then it gives me the 'lost connection" message and then i keep going around in circles trying to connect

Last week, it would do that 2 or 3 times and eventually connect, but now, not working at all. It's infuriating. All i want to do is play online

I have cleared my cache, reinstalled the game. restarted my modem and to no avail. Is it something EA is attempting to fix?