Cannot leave Havarl/enter the Tempest

I feel all of your pain and then some.  I have completed all there is to complete on Havarl including the final mission twice (reloaded to see if it would help.)  I cannot leave the planet.  Hold down the "Y" button and the meter fills but does not complete.  The sad part is that I have completed two other planets already so I am currently level 33.  That is a lot of time to even think about restarting this game....Sheppard wouldn't do this to us.

*Update - Mine was also having the problem of the "Extract to Tempest" disappearing in two seconds.  I picked the best load out station that I could blink to in time and was able to use the "Extract to Tempest."  Maybe you guys can try that method.