thank you for replying,
i have been reading the link you gave me, at the aftermath section ( and yes i have the extended cut )
"If EMS is 3100+ and the Destroy option is chosen, Shepard is seen barely alive, gasping for breath (if Anderson is shot by the Illusive Man, the player needs a higher EMS to see this short scene"
i have 5500 EMS but i did not see the scene, i shot the Illusive man with the renegade action before he excecuted anderson. during the scene in which you see your crew in the normandy ashley has my name plate ( she's also my romance ) and she just places my nameplate on the wall and the ship takes off and leaves, then i get credits.
in the 'shepard lives' vids on youtube you see ashley holding the nameplate but instead of placing it on the memorial wall she holds it and eventually looks up in the "air" believing he is still alive, the ship takes off and you get the small cutscene of shepard laying between rumble, but i dont get that?
"If the Destroy option was chosen and the player has very high EMS, the plaque is shown, but not placed on the wall (love interest smiles and doesn't place it) and a scene showing Shepard breathing in a pile of rubble is shown as the last scene before the credits roll." <-- exact words on the wiki page, i have 5500 EMS which should be more then enough according to the site, but this is not the cutscene's im having, why?