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I can't switch between sims
This is a major problem. Whenever I asked my sim's boyfriend/baby-daddy to move in with her I am unable to switch back and forth between them properly. When he moves in, it automatically switches to ...
http://sims3.crinrict.com/en/2011/10/bug-multi-selected-portraits.html
also try clearing the cache files
delete the cach files go to electronic arts/the sims 3/
•CasPartCache.package •compositorCache.package
•scriptCache.package •simCompositorCache.package
•socialCache.package.package
it's safe to delete these files as a new ones will regenerate
