@HersheyOlive Your Mac's graphics chip is the minimum requirement for 64-bit Sims 3, which means you can play but perhaps with some compromises, as you're seeing. If you're happy with the third-party tools you've found, great, there's no reason to look further. But if you'd like to tinker a bit more, editing GraphicsRules.sgr may help.
Find the Sims 3.app wherever you've installed it, likely in Applications > EA Games. Right-click it and select Show Package Contents, then open this:
Contents > Resources > The Sims 3 [right-click, Show Package Contents] > Contents > Resources
Open GraphicsRules.sgr (TextEdit is fine) and search for advanced , which should take you to this:
option AdvancedRendering
setting $Off
prop $ConfigGroup RenderForceMinspecShaders 1
prop $ConfigGroup TerrainLODMode 1
prop $ConfigGroup RenderPostProcessEnabled false
prop $ConfigGroup RenderShadowsEnabled false
prop $ConfigGroup CullUndergroundBuildBuyStructures 0
setting $On
prop $ConfigGroup RenderForceMinspecShaders 0
prop $ConfigGroup TerrainLODMode 0
prop $ConfigGroup CullUndergroundBuildBuyStructures 0
end
You can edit one setting at a time, 1 to 0 or false to true, and see whether it gives you the effects you want without making the game crash again.