@thekve My game tends to freeze for a couple seconds when my sim triggers a hidden staircase to open. I've seen this on multiple computers, in both Windows and macOS, so I don't think it's avoidable, at least not completely. If the game just freezes briefly and then resumes, I wouldn't worry about it. If the game doesn't recover from the freeze, then you might need to temporarily lower your in-game settings, at least while your sims are exploring tombs.
I guess you could edit the tombs to replace the hidden staircases with regular ones instead, but you probably don't want to have to do all that work, and additionally spoil the surprise element either. When in build or buy mode, you'd see all the tricks and traps as well.
For the freezing in Bridgeport, same question: does the game freeze temporarily or permanently? Does it help if you disable the celebrity options? I'm trying to imagine what might be special about meeting sims in Bridgeport that wouldn't necessarily be true in other worlds.
I'm also curious what hardware you have and what settings you're using. Please attach your deviceconfig.log, in Documents > Electronic Arts > The Sims 3. You'll neeed to manually open the folders; the file won't show up in a search. You can delete your user and computer names, about 25 lines down, but there's nothing else in that file that can identify you.