[FIXED] Care for self not showing up

Product: The Sims 4
Platform:PC
Which language are you playing the game in? English
How often does the bug occur? Every time (100%)
What is your current game version number? 1.52.100.1020
What expansions, game packs, and stuff packs do you have installed? Seasons, Get to Work, City Living, Dine Out, Parenthood, Kids Room Stuff.
Steps: How can we find the bug ourselves? Have a multi-sim household. Have one sim stay home, travel with other sim to a lot (I chose my retail bakery). Attempt to have sim at home care for self or build skills etc.
What happens when the bug occurs? Sim at home is correctly greyed out but there is no lightning bolt icon to select.
What do you expect to see? The lightning bolt icon so I can control my sims that are at home.
Have you installed any customization with the game, e.g. Custom Content or Mods? Not now. I've removed them.
Did this issue appear after a specific patch or change you made to your system? Neutral/Not Sure 

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(Please move this to here: https://answers.ea.com/t5/Bug-Reports/NEEDS-INPUT-Care-for-self-not-showing-up/td-p/7972350/page/3  

I wasn't sure how to post using the bug template in a thread that's already opened sorry)

This doesn't happen with all sims as you can see in the pic attached below - The two females are sisters raised from babies, the male sim with the issue is one of their boyfriends, didn't play him at all however he was born from another family (through story progression settings in MCCC). When I come home from the bakery, the female is fine, all needs green and the male has all his needs down in the yellows oranges and reds.