Googling brought me to this thread; might be a related issue.
Today when I entered my game, I noticed that one of my longtime residential lots had an exclamation mark in a green triangle over it instead of the usual plumbob marking a played household. Mouseover brought a tooltip identifying the lot as an incomplete museum. IIRC I once, in 2014-2015, had a wedding/museum community building there, but I've been playing it as a residential lot for years, & it's always had the usual plumbob over it. Entering the lot via buildmode (using the lower r-side button on worldview), the lot type showed as Residential but it was greyed out & a tooltip said I couldn't change the lot-type as the lot was owned. (I was figuring I'd try changing it to something else--generic?--and then changing it back again.) Entering via first Livemode and then switching to build had the same result; lot-type was greyed out. Going back to Livemode and letting the game run a moment, & then returning to build/buy, the lot type was no longer greyed out, yay! (Yeah no, keep reading.) I exited via 'escape/manage worlds' as this is not the household I want to play atm. Unfortunately, in worldview the house again showed the exclamation mark. Re-entering via livemode & switching to build, the lot type & traits are again locked.
I'm beginning to forget everything I've tried, as I try something and when it fails I exit the game, delete my caches/empty the trash, then try again. I did try the 'freebuild' cheat at one point, but it didn't open the lot ('lot type can't be changed while lot is owned' is the exact quote.)
I have everything except Island Living (thanks, 50%-off sales! :D) I do now play with mods, but I took 'em all out & it's definitely still there. Not sure whether it's safe to treat it as a visual glitch, ignore it, and go on playing my other household. Would like to play t'other household today. Anybody got any advice on that? (If I do play, I'll start another set of saves...) Thx in advance for any assistance!
7/6/2019 edited to add: if it wasn't clear, the previous building on this lot was a community lot, & the house that's on it now is a residential house I built elsewhere and downloaded from my library--all years ago.
7/6/2019, later: trying various workarounds, none worked yet. Rather than clutter this with my notes, here's the TS4 forum thread where I'm now annotating my attempts.
None of the attempts worked. 'Selling the business,' bulldozing, moving the family, bulldozing, d/l-ing the (saved as residential) lot from my library & moving the family back in-- every variation I attempted still ended with a greyed out lot type after I moved the family back in. Traveling to another lot in the neighborhood & travelling back didn't change it; lot type still greyed out.