sad moodlets after death

I want a Sim to have more sympathy not to someone you just met but like the Sims 3 you know a neighbor family member died so you call them or visit them to give your condolences. Or like a family member in your house die and a few come by to give their condolences when your in a sad state. But being sad for 6 days for a Sim is crazy bananas. The moodlet from a fire being stressed for that long is crazy bananas. some moodlet I get but others it's like come on really?