Schemes and Dreams

You haven't caused any harm at all, but I think mistakes should be expected when people write about experiences that aren't their own. Wouldn't it be nice to have a team of editors, sensitivity readers, etc. like some professional authors have to help out? Since we don't have teams behind us, covering experiences that aren't our own is just going to be an ongoing challenge. I don't think you should stop writing diverse characters. Your stories are great. But I also don't think you should feel pressured to use AAVE if it's stressful. It doesn't necessarily add or subtract from any of the characters' authenticity.