Agreed. As a console player, not for the first time I feel at a disadvantage as there are mods out there to minimise chaos caused by NAPs but on console I'm stuck with them.
I think it's been very badly thought out in terms of the assignment of random intrusive effects on every single part of every world. I would never have added Eco Living if I'd known all of the worlds and even the Sims I'd given so much thought to, would be disrupted in this way. I thought I'd be able to set each one myself and I think that's reasonable since it's my game.
There should be a way to reset NAPs in each area without a Sim living there having to repeal each one. I've currently got a Sim moving from area to area to repeal the worst NAPs that cause most disruption. Sharing is Caring, Roughhousing and worst of the worst...Free Love. I don't want my Sims things disappearing, I don't want them being attacked or groped in the street either! With regards to the last two, unfortunately devs did not read the room before adding something that has Sims being slapped or ravished by their best friend or strangers randomly without being able to stop it, I mean WOW...just, like wow! Really? Unwanted physical advances that you can't stop?!? I think the world has moved on a bit and it's in really poor taste. It's like a nightclub in 1999 and I'm about to throw my squashed frog at someone (it's a drink...not a frog I squashed specifically for the purpose of throwing by the way)!
The whole point of the Sims for me is the creation of the world's and towns. I put so much thought into it, often upscaling a group of houses or an area in a specific way, creating family links and friendships across worlds and so on. The NAPs change it all with the negative actions they bring. I was having problems with excessive random meanness and happy couples flirting and more at inappropriate times and settings and spoiling gatherings. NAPs dialled the problems up to a new level.
As for the sharing is caring, I do happen to live in a friendly group of close neighbours and we do share extra things with each other. If we run out of something, one if us will usually have some spare...but we don't swipe each others furniture because that would just be rude.
It's fair enough for these things to apply to a club or household, like Partihaus for example when it's a choice to participate, but not a whole town.