Yeah, the breakup is something special. I have a fate system and the first wants which my vampire got was to break up with his soulmate. Because I don’t like weddings *specially since MWS clutter the pie menu full of stupid marriage things, self after the wedding* they normally don’t get engaged/marriage. I don’t know if he rolled this wants because they are lovers, and the game thinks is okey to break up couples which are not married.
I would say that this new feature is not for player which want to tell her own story, because they got rid of the core feature to reroll whims for free if you don’t like a whim as... *buy pet toy number 1337* and you get now punished if you ignore wants for too long.
Because we all now beta tester of this feature it will maybe improve? I don’t know, I will not play whit these things, because I play sims 4 as sandbox and don’t need Wants&Fears. I only used whims in my modded game, and there only with bienchen whims mod. As long I do not find a mod which remove fears complete, I will not use this new feature.