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HazelBoo968's avatar
2 years ago

Frequent Issues Within My Game

I'm just going to list several issues I've seen while playing Sims 4.

- Eating meals: Instead of using the dining room table like I'd like for my sims to, they sometimes will eat on the couch, eat outside at a picnic table of some sort, or one of the most recent ones I've seen, eat at the edge of the pool. My sims will actually change outfits into their swimwear and plop down at the edge of the pool to eat. I don't like this. I want to be able to control my sims and make them eat where I want them to eat. With the amount of lag I deal with, it's frustrating trying to get my sims away from the undesired location their eating at and move them to where I want them to be.

- Pet's wants/needs: I feel as though the pets get too needy. I mostly have dogs for my sims, so I can't say much for other pets, but my sims dogs are constantly walking around with their heads drooped, moping and such. I understand that just means they need attention of some sort, but when you have a large household, it becomes difficult to continuously stop tasks for sims to ensure that the dog gets a treat. I just wished it was minimized, that's all.

- NPC house mannerisms: I absolutely cannot stand it when I invite an NPC over to my sim's house and they march up the stairs to go into my sim's personal bedroom to play on the computer. Another example would be NPCs using exercise equipment. Kind of weird to do when you just walked through the front door. I know that door's can be locked to prevent this, but what if I want my sim and an NPC to woohoo? I'd then have to unlock the door and pray that the NPC wouldn't, for example, get on the computer afterwards. It's a hassle. 

- Bad relationships: This isn't too much of a concern for me as it just adds drama to the storyline I've got going on with my household, but my female sim just recently broke off their engagement to a male sim, whom they share a child with. Within a few days, there was a holiday and I invited several guests over including the father of the child. He refused to come due to the bad relationship between him and the female sim. Again, not too much of an issue, but I'm sure there are simmers out there who'd wish that they'd show up anyway just for the child. Am I to expect that the father will be 100% absent in that child's life? Do I really need to repair the relationship of the female and male to a friendly level for the sake of a child? I just want some realism. 

- Dramatic emotions: I'm aware that some if not most simmers actually enjoy the drama that come's with emotions, but personally, I feel that it's too much. I don't like that when I have a hotheaded sim and he/she gets angry, they are seething, visibly so. I'm talking marching/stomping around with tense body language and dramatic facial expressions. It's not realistic (unless it's maybe a child sim) and not what I'd expect of a "life simulation" game. It's "cartoon-ey." Childlike even. It would be awesome if there was a way to toggle the intensity for those who aren't a fan of how overwhelmed the sims actually get. I just want a frustrated state, not some "I HATE THE WORLD AND IT NEEDS TO KNOW IT" sim. 

- CAS outfits categories: Not an issue I have faced, but an idea - it'd be awesome to have the ability to copy and paste certain outfits between categories. An example that I'm positive most simmers would love is makeup. Being forced to redo makeup over and over for each outfit category is an absolute pain and one of the things I dread about CAS. Piercings and other accessories too! No one wants to spend hours in CAS trying to make their sims look good. We want to minimize the time there and get to gameplay, so why not make it easier? Copying and pasting outfits, accessories, makeup, etc. would be great! And if at all possible, I'd like to have more outfit options - the ability to create more outfits like "3 everyday outfits" or "2 cold weather outfits". For example, I could have an active sim who wants to play basketball, but their "active/sportswear" outfit is meant for like yoga or something. Again, with the amount of lag I face, it's not enjoyable to go to a dresser or whatnot and "plan" an outfit. Loading time sucks. 

- Lag: I'm pretty sure I've read that this is something the team is already working on, but I just wanted to ensure that my voice is heard as well. The lag is insane. The lag to boot up the game, the lag to wait on my sims household to load, the lag that follows afterwards once my sims appear on screen (can't play for a couple minutes due to the amount of lag), the lag that'll happen when I want my sim to do a task, the lag that happens from live mode to build mode... I could go on. I even face lag trying to exit the game after saving and go back to the homescreen. It's too much time. I want to enjoy my game without waiting on everything to load. 

These are just some of the issues I've personally seen, but there are so many more worth mentioning. I'm sure they're covered by other simmers here on the forum so I won't make this list unbearable. The last issue I will note is the broken expansion packs. I cannot believe how many are actually worthless due to the lack of functionality of them. There are expansion packs that I'd love to purchase (Dine Out, Discover University, My Wedding Stories) but won't because I'm not paying like $30-40 for something that doesn't even work. I think they're overpriced anyway, even if they actually worked the way it was intended, but I'd still buy it (with the idea that the packs work well) for the sake of gameplay. These expansion packs, stuff packs, and kits are pushed out way too early because the developers are money hungry. Bad content = loss of consumers. Don't need to go to business school for that one. I'd hope that I can expect Sims 5 to not be so money hungry. Otherwise I'll enjoy playing other life simulation games like "Life By You". 

I appreciate you taking the time to read this and I'd hope that at least one of these issues are solved (I'm sure the team has a lot on their plate trying to fix bugs and whatnot). Thank you!

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  • EA_cuervo's avatar
    EA_cuervo
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    2 years ago
    @HazelBoo968 Hey, thank you so much for your feedback. I moved your post to The Sims boards as you had originally posted on Apex Legends.
  • @EA_cuervo Oh, haha, thank you! Never used this site before. Was told by the Sims team to post any issues here. Thank you for moving it!
  • @HazelBoo968   Welcome to a wonderful source of information, insight and inspiration for all things Sims 4.


    Many of your issues are ones that other simmers have discussed as well and if you explore the forum you may find that other simmers have created or discovered work-arounds for some of the issues you face in your game.

    ”eating meals” as a group is currently virtually impossible in Sims 4.  It becomes so frustrating watching and trying to manage this issue.  I have even resorted to calling all my sims to the room, then locking the doors before “calling to meal”.  I know… restrictive practices…  Even then they don’t stay seated as a group eating their meal… they will get up and wander to another section of the room and start reading a book while intermittently eating their meal… or two will get up from the table and start chatting in another section of the room .  Some will just plough through the meal, ignoring everyone else and then start working on homework when they finish eating???  I would just like my sims to sit and talk with each other having a pleasant family and/or friends and/or romantic meal.  Thank goodness for the sanity saving mods that can be found on Curse Forge.

    ”pets wants and needs” This is another potentially frustrating issue in the game as are all the sick and hungry strays.  I now usually assign different animal care “chores” to the children, teens and adults (young to elder) from the family bulletin board (parenthood pack), although I can’t remember if those bulletin board chores are from a mod.  There is also a mod to help with the sick and stray animals, as well as some for your pets and animals needs…

    ”npc house manners”. It is possible to lock the computer to various levels in the computer security settings ie lock for everyone, lock for everyone except the active sim, lock for everyone except household…. Otherwise you could have a small separate study/hobby room with a door that you lock for everyone except household. I get annoyed when they come in and start making meals or cakes or herbalism potions… and the way I get around this is to lock the kitchen door to everyone but the household, and I keep the BBQ (grill) in my inventory or locked in a “shed” until I need it for my story.  Then it comes out and needs to be cleaned before use as we would IRL when we store it away in the garden shed or garage…

    ”bad relationships”. Fully agree.  There are varying levels of relationship between exes and it would be nice to have a toggle or slider as part of the breakup scenario to adjust these relationships ie best friends to enemy with benefits… I have many friends who are separated or divorced and each relationship has a different dynamic - one family friend group has mum and dad both living in the family home but in separate areas and they and their kids have developed a unique lifestyle with dad about to marry again and build a new extension on the family home for him and his new wife and maybe? more children.

    ”dramatic emotions”. The excessive cartoonish mannerisms etc is what makes Sims 4 different from other Sims.  Personally, I agree with you in not liking it so I tend to use only the moderate traits instead of the overdone ones like hot-headed, high maintenance, mean…. If you prefer more realistic gameplay, maybe try a different iteration of Sims (1, 2 and 3 have some fabulous gameplay and unique gameplay in each that you will find being requested to be added to sims 4 by simmers in other posts.  You will also find that each iteration also has its own issues)

    ”CAS outfits categories”  Agree with all that you have said.  I would love if I could have a favourite tab in CAS (and in BB) for the things I use regularly.  If you click on the arrow above each of the icons, you will be able to click on the 1 through to 5 to create additional outfits for each category.  I usually give my sims 5 everyday outfits ranging in style and seasonal needs; then multiple formal ranging from black tie, black and white, to less formal with different hair, make-up and accessories to match; for party I have a couple of outfits and usually at least one costume for the san myshuno geekcon festival and one for Halloween (added via calendar); swimwear I usually have swimming, poolside party, sun protection and diving outfits… CAS takes me a long time to create each of my sims.  Have fun with this feature.

    ”lag” can be very frustrating not to be expected as it is Sims 4 and was developed supposedly “for easier access to a wider range of computer systems”.  But given how old the game is and how many expansions are available, it is not surprising that there are issues.

    ”broken expansion packs” seem to have become synonymous with Sims 4 pack releases unfortunately.  When conversing on other gamer forums, the letters “ea” usually are taken to mean early access???

    I have to agree with you about all the upcoming new life simulations.  I am particularly excited about Life By You, Inzoi and Paralives, although there are others I am watching and others that I have started playing now.  My children and grandchildren are very excited about Inzoi and Life ByYou and one is playing another game.  Looks like future-me will be spending even more time playing computer games but playing a wider variety of games so I can play the different games with different children/grandchildren.

    I have been a simmer since it first started. I remember the excitement and a touch of fear when I finally brought it home and then first started loading The Sims. Retro music tracks from previous sims iterations bring back so many happy (and sometimes scary) memories.  As a family, we have many fond memories of multi-generational family playtime with Sims from my parents (now deceased) through to my grandchildren. As a family, we currently do tend to play previous iterations rather than Sims 4.  

    Thank you @HazelBoo968  for taking the time to list your concerns.  While agreeing with you, my response has still brought many happy memories.  Here’s to many more years of happy simming…

  • Welcome @HazelBoo968 I hope you'll find AHQ as useful and inspiring as many of us fellow Simmers do. You can add your thoughts, share your designs and get help with any game problems.

    With some of the issues you have in your game you might find this link helpful. 

    https://answers.ea.com/t5/Bug-Reports/READ-FIRST-Compiled-list-of-reported-Issues/m-p/3445209#M223825

    These are our bug reports where we report issues and help the Sims team identify bugs that need to be fixed. It's all divided up by packs to make it easier to navigate. When we give our platform and installed content info it helps the team to replicate and hopefully fix as many as they can. If you see any issues here that are also in your game you can join any bug report by going to the first post on page 1 and clicking the Me Too button. You can also add a reply if you want and complete the bug report template that should pop up for you. Every now and then we'll see a Laundry List of upcoming fixes so we know what's likely to be addressed by the next game patch.

    Here's a guide too that you might find useful, just to explain the different categories on AHQ.

    https://answers.ea.com/t5/Bug-Reports/INFORMATION-How-does-this-forum-work/m-p/7368632#M181733

    With the eating meals together issue you're having, if you have Parenthood you can set dining tables with place settings. Once that's done, Sims will automatically go to the set dining table to eat together. It does mean that the table has to be set for each meal though.

    If you have a child Sim with a parent who doesn't live with them, depending on the age of the child they will be able to invite the parent over by themselves or meet up with the parent themselves. If you have Get Together you can also add family members to a club and travel together as the club for family gatherings. Everyone will attend as it doesn't require an invite.

    As @OzSimsFamily says, you can lock doors and computers to your household or individuals. It's the very first thing I do when starting a new household as it really annoys me too. I also set Front doors to No Trespassing too so I don't get uninvited guests.

    With your lagging problem I share those frustrations and there are things that can help, if you have a lot of items in previous Sims household/personal inventories or saved items in your library it can help lagging to clear those. I'm on Xbox Series X and I clear those regularly as well as keeping an eye on Other Households as excessive amounts of Townies can also slow the game down.

    Hope this helps! 

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