I agree with this (even as a white person who wears a bonnet at night due to my wavy curls). It's wild how un-put-together these outfits are. And people who need hearing aids don't just wear them for one outfit category.
As far as mods go, there's one on Curseforge that I like that helps (when I play with mods): No Make Up No Accessories on Randomized Sims. I think it's by SimplyAnjuta but just doing a search for it should get you to it. I realize you were saying that mods aren't influencing this problem, which is true, but at least there is a mod that helps! Good luck!
