[PH] Ask advice pop-ups during school hours

It is annoying how many ask advice pop-ups that occur, especially if you have more than one child. Since it doesn't matter at all since all kids tend to get responsibility and manners without any effort because they went to school or cleaned up the dished autonomously. 

But the biggest issue, and what I hope is a bug or an oversight, is that these pop-ups will go to any adult sim in the household regardless if there is a parent/ sim set as caregiver in the household. 

It feels like more often then not the ask advice pop-ups when the kids are at school will go to a sim that is not related and that is not set as a caregiver and usually is not even friendly with the kid that trigger the pop-up. 

The adult getting the questions also usually have no skill in parenting so I get no options, even though I have parents/ caregivers available that do have parenting skill.

And it is not about the parents being at work etc and the sim getting the questions being at home alone, parents/ caregivers can also be home but still the random adult will get the pop-up.

Why is there no priority when the game selects the adult that should answer the questions that pop-up during school? 
Parents and then sims set as caregivers in the household should be selected first, then other sims that are related and live in the house, then adult sims that are friends in the household. Then the random newly moved in roommate of their uncle should get the calls...

I don't use mods or CC. 

Edit By Crinrict: Adjusted pack tag to fit conventions of the forum.