Solved
Grip Reaper Event randomly started in wrong save file!!
I was playing in a save when the Grim Reaper Rewards Event stuff popped up, but this is not the family that I want to have play it!
If I create a new save, will the event appear in that instead?
Ok, I stopped my panic, made a new save file, event appeared.....so I guess that is solved. I'll leave my little panic session here in case anyone else has the same panic!
