I agree. My sim would get upset every time she used the toilet or had a shower... I just use cheats to remove the buffs because it was too much. Being angry and tense all the time over everything is not high maintenance. I can see this being the case if you took them camping, but in their own home, it gets over bearing.
I find sims tend to get more negative moodlets in general now. Workaholic sims become tense after work, with the vacation needed buff one day, then have 1 day off the next and are tense the whole day because they are not at work. What the heck do you want? There needs to be a better balance because I am a little tired of having to manage my sims emotions. I am suppose to be their creator, not their therapist!