How to toggle swatch options back on

I am learning how to play on a pc for the first time since sims 3 had just come out and it's a learning curve. I know that there are counter shape options when you turn off auto from playing on ps4, but when I tried to figure out how to get to them, I went to the gear icon in the color swatch options and was faced with three options I didn't really understand. When I selected the other two it would just reset to the same menu. The third option apparently toggled off the whole swatch options window and I cant figure out how to toggle it back on. I can cycle through colors other ways but I still can't figure out how to get to the counter options I was originally trying to find. I'm honestly lost.