Is there a way they don't flirt at all??? It pissed me off, all the time flirting and not doing what they should do, including taking care of the children etc. I tried unflirtly traits and no way, they still flirt autonomously. I don't care if they are married or not, doing that with the partners, I don't want them to do it without my permission when I play with them. Looks like horney all day, OMG!!!

@Anammaga Sims are annoyingly flirty. When I get tired of it I create a Sim with no romantic interest, no woohoo interest, and not exploring. If I decide I want them to have a family I have them adopt or have a science baby.

@JonaO703 @Jona0703 I didn't try this but I will! Thank you for the suggestion!

@PipMenace Thank you! I did something similar, I moved a female sim, went to CAS, played with genetics, made a daughter, and when I finished I sent her back to her household again. It worked, but they never lived together and I didn't marry them. So the family was kinda incomplete, like most of the modern ones in rl. Lol. Try that if it works for you too 🙂

@simsplayer818 Thank you. After reading you, I think I have this bug too. Their conversation is mostly flirt, or at least most of the time, repeat and repeat the same. Talk to children or others in flirty mood, supposedly because the other is in the room. The weird thing is they flirt even when they are not in a flirty mood. When the couple talks with someone else the conversation becomes awkward or offensive, like there is a kind or jealousy or something else. I don't go anymore to the romance festival, because if they drink something they say something flirty to anyone and the line suddenly is completely full, weird when it took me time to fill both living in the same house. That is as weird as when my played sim goes to a place and in one second without introducing him becomes a good friend or trusted friend of someone else. I guess the random thing takes more flirty options than all the other ones. It's annoying for me, I have to delete de action any time I can, but it's frustrating. I stopped playing with that household and took another. Now I don't play with couples for a while. I gonna check out the page you added. Thank you again.

They act automatically, when you hit the other sims you more or less can see the options they have, I can't send orders to al of them (the household) l, they take time to obey and do the first thing the game chose. I don't have many mods, and the one I have mc I selected NO flirt autonomously I think it's the game. I repeat I want to know how can I stop that..

I need a way my sims do not flirt at all autonomosly, unflirty trait no works

20 Replies

jpkarlsen
Hero (Retired)
2 years ago
@Anammaga
I take it that you have some mod installed that cause your Sims to not do what you have told them to do and instead start flirting with their spouse. You need to figure out which one and remove it.
Anammaga
2 years ago
They act automatically, when you hit the other sims you more or less can see the options they have, I can't send orders to al of them (the household) l, they take time to obey and do the first thing the game chose. I don't have many mods, and the one I have mc I selected NO flirt autonomously I think it's the game. I repeat I want to know how can I stop that..
Purple_Tragedy
Seasoned Veteran
2 years ago
Do you have Eco Living? They might have the Free Love NAP enabled.
LadyAofPineapple
Seasoned Ace
2 years ago
@Anammaga The "unflirty" trait should work fine among sims who do not have a romantic relationship. However, since your sims are married (I assume happily?), they likely have a good amount of the pink romance bar filled up. I'm not sure how to lower romance naturally (vanilla save) without breaking them up, so since you have MCCC installed, I suggest deleting their relationship altogether, and then resetting it to a friends level. I don't know if this would affect their marriage, however, so you may need to turn on "testingcheats true" and reconnect them as spouses in CAS.

As @ValFreya13 mentioned, there might be another aspect of gameplay that is also interfering, so I would suggest taking a look at NAPs (if you have Eco Life).

Additionally, flirting is just a fun interaction between two parties and not necessarily always about "woo hoo". However, if it makes you uncomfortable, then I hope I can help you in some way to make your game more enjoyable for you. Happy Simming!
birti67
Seasoned Rookie
2 years ago
Jeg er helt enig, den flirten er også blevet for meget for mig. Jeg indstiller nu mine simmere i CAS til ingen romantik. Når min simmer møder ægtefælde, kan man så vælge at blive juhuu partnere. Man kan også få børn. Det forekommer dog stadig, at der er flirtende simmere i huset. En bedstefar, elle rancharbejderen der snakker med familiens tumling, med fordrejet stemme og strygen med hånden gennem håret. Det er bare for meget.
LadyAofPineapple
Seasoned Ace
2 years ago
@birti67 Could you please add the English translation to your post, as this is the language of this forum? I regretfully cannot understand what you've said.
Anammaga
2 years ago
@LadyAofPineapple Hi, thank you for your help. Yes at the beginning they need to flirt and it's fine so you can marry them. Because even if I can fill all the romance lines, they need to ask to be boyfriends, then engage, and then marry (unless I created them at the same time, together you can do it in CAS). If you follow the steps, they fall deeply in love. I changed and deleted that feeling, but they were continuously flirting with each other, repeating the same things, and that bothered me a lot. I tried to be mean, fight, etc and one of them still flirted with her (what???) For me is annoying, I finish deleting one of them or divorce them and in this way, I break the family. I would like to decide when they flirt, but no. It bothers me when they become obsessive about repeating the same action without stopping, like drinking coffee for example. But the flirting especially bothers me a lot. I don't know if I have ecolife, I have almost all the extensions except 3, vampires, magic, and another one that I don't remember. If ecolife is the one who comes with goats and small animals. yes I have it. I didn't understand what's NAP, sorry.

When you create and marry a couple in CAS, the game gives them a good amount of rose (romantic) line and a smaller line in green (friendship). I don't know why.
I tried to use traits that help don't put them in a flirty mood, like high self-esteem, unflirty traits, and so on but didn't work well. The other day I created a woman unflirty, not interested in romance or woohoo with men and women, and she went out to talk to a paparazzi, and she said something that the pink line appeared more than the middle, it was too much to me! Delete the relationship it's almost the same as divorcing them. The difference is they need to meet each other again.
It's not the woo hoo, they exceptionally do it by themselves. I wish a mod to make them unflirty without conflicts or a game option.
jpkarlsen
Hero (Retired)
2 years ago
@Anammaga
"When you create and marry a couple in CAS, the game gives them a good amount of rose (romantic) line and a smaller line in green (friendship). I don't know why"
The game does this because it is normal for married couples to have romantic feelings for each other and be somewhat friendly. Even though you appear to not be that old you should have noticed that in your parents (if not I feel deeply sorry for you).
It is easy for you to see what packs you own by clicking Packs on the main screen.
Anammaga
2 years ago
@birti67 I translated this by Google. Thanks, I'm glad you agree with me on the flirting thing it's too much. As I said after you wrote I created a granny to take care of the children, their parents didn't do it because they mostly talk and flirt a lot between them, so I moved them out and I did an unflirty elder, NO romance or woo-hoo at all, maybe I added also committed (supposedly they don't flirt with people other than their partner, she doesn't have any and don't have any other adult in the house to flirt with) BUT like she's famous, suddenly went out to talk to a paparazzi and the first thing she did was flirt!!!! I got mad and upset. I think the game creator confused romance with being hot, And the worst thing is they do it without being in a flirty mood. It seems a habit, an addiction. I hate also when they talk to their babies in a flirty mood. It's so unreal!! s-pid. OMG.
Anammaga
2 years ago
@jpkarlsenDon't be sorry. I'm an adult, I was married, and two months ago my husband passed away, I'm not a baby. And despite being Latin, that exaggeration seems very misplaced and boring to me. I felt like you judged me, I'm sorry but I am a mature normal person (certificated lol)
I disagree with you, in the sense that for me the logical thing is to know each other enough to marry someone, so, the friendship should be bigger than the romance line.
The main screen in the game? I guess Getting famous is the problem or maybe Growing together.