Milestones broken

So to preface, I love the idea of this pack, but the milestones are making it really, really hard to actually love this pack.

As of 03/23, every website you look at lists "all" of the infant milestones... but they're all missing some. I found that there are 30, not 25.  How are we supposed to know if our infant has learned everything they need to if we don't know what all there is? There should be a way for us to see all of the perks and milestones that are available and how to achieve them! (Something like the lifestyles layout or fame perks would be cool)

During the toddler stage, I'm running into the issue that milestones that I definitely have met, aren't being checked off. (Ex: Reaching max movement skill). And under the cognitive skill section, you first have to learn the alphabet and then numbers. I got the milestone for the letters, but the blocks won't let me learn the numbers, nor can the parent teach them numbers with the flashcards. I got a toddler best friend, but again, am unable to achieve this milestone. I literally haven't even remotely gotten to the childhood or adult phase because of how long it's taking to make sure I'm not missing anything during the toddler and infant phases... idk am I tweaking or are other people having these issues?

P.S. these are the additional infant milestones a lot of lists are missing:

26. Smile

27. Blow kiss

28. Wave

29. Clap

30. Dance