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Wyrm37
Seasoned Newcomer
12 months ago

Romantic Boundaries not violated, Sim still 'cheated' on by partner

My Sim has two 'Partners', Vanesha and Kiersten. Kiersten doesn't experience any jealousy and Vanesha only experiences  jealousy for woohoo. However, when Vanshesa saw my sim kiss Kiersten, she reacted like she was being cheated on (got cheated on moodlets, milestone, and fear). 

My game has the most recent update, I'm playing with Lovestruck, and I have no mods

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  • Not sure if this would be on topic but sims with the loyal trait can have romantic boundaries but they get a tense moodlet does the loyal trait conflict with no boundaries? Wish i could keep the loyal trait within poly relationship.

  • I was setting up so my legacy sim could be in poly relationship with the romantic boundaries, I have him and both partners set to not get jealous over anything but whenever he so much as flits with one of them the other gets the 'Romantic Boundaries broken' pop up and threatens to break up with him. Anyone else having this bug and know how to fix it. 

    I went back into cas and double checked all their boundaries were set up correctly and it still happens. 

  • I got the latest pack and have all the sims in my house set to  looking for both m,f, exploring and will woohoo with f, m. All their boundaries are set to no. Free love is on.

    So why am i still having relationship decreases when a sim with multiple romantic interests flirts with more than one sim in a convo? Ive tried this on and out of a group, on a 3 person romantic date.  There should be no jealousy but i still get the negative relationship effects.

  • PipMenace's avatar
    PipMenace
    Hero
    10 months ago
    @aca1b89053ebc6ad Are they actually getting angry, or is it just that the conversation's not going well? Considering how quick Sims are to flirt with everyone they meet and how quickly you can progress in this game from introduction to woohoo, Sims are surprisingly prudish about flirty conversations. I've noticed they almost always get embarrased/uncomfortable/awkward conversation when you flirt with them in a group conversation.

    In other words, your Sims relationships may not be dropping because of witnessing the other two flirting, but rather because of being flirted with themselves in front of a witness.

    If they're actually getting upset about "cheating" - are you using the loyal trait on any of them? That has its own effects that will make them feel guilty even if their partner has jealousy turned off.